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Fet's avatar

If it makes you feel any better, we're the same age and if I was told all of this, I'd do the same thing I'd do the same thing I'll do if I was told to my face "🚶"

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I finally found a platform with almost no negative vibes and some dick wants to spoil it for me??

I'd just block whoever it is and move on

You write nicely btw

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Noyonika Banerjee 💌's avatar

Thanks a lot!☺️

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Shrishti Verma's avatar

Noyo, you are so strong. Honestly, if all this had happened to me, I might have disappeared from this platform. But sweetie, you have got guts,you handled everything perfectly. You are inspiring and so creative that some people might not fully understand your talent. You never need to worry; your supporters will always be here for you. Keep growing, succeeding, and smiling. 💗💗

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Noyonika Banerjee 💌's avatar

I actually cried reading this, you are so sweet, Shrishti!! 🥹🥹🥹💌💌💌💕💕💕

I was scared and disturbed earlier, but no one can urge me to leave Substack! You will have to bear with me for a long time now😂

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Shrishti Verma's avatar

No worries babe. Your rants are so cute reading them feels like listening to a child complaining endlessly. 😂😂😂

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Noyonika Banerjee 💌's avatar

Was that a compliment or insult?😅😂😂😂

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Shrishti Verma's avatar

No 😭😭 Its Just a way to tell you that you are cute 🥺

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Meenah Fatah's avatar

I've been reading your works here and you're doing an amazing job. Don't let anyone make you feel any less just because you're younger.

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Noyonika Banerjee 💌's avatar

Ahh!! Thanks a lot! You are so sweet!🥹❤️

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Meenah Fatah's avatar

You're welcome 😁

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Kathy Enriquez-Nguyen's avatar

Let it all out!!! Man people are so lame. You’ll find that the mute and block button will become your friend on the internet. Substack is better than a lot of platforms but there’s gonna be fools everywhere.

But hey at least people show their true colours right away and you’ll know who to avoid. Keep your head and continue to be you

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Noyonika Banerjee 💌's avatar

That is a great advice Kathy!! Thanks a lot! And sorry for the late reply🥲

You guys are the bestttt🫶🏻🫶🏻💞💞

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Alesha 💕's avatar

i think we're the same agee but ye i totally get youu sometimes i used to get wierd comments under my posts and i just used to block them. also tysm for mentioning me!!! <333

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Noyonika Banerjee 💌's avatar

Thank you, sweetie! 🥹✨️💌

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☽✰ 𝐒𝐚𝐦’𝐬 𝐂𝐨𝐬𝐦𝐨𝐬 ✰☽'s avatar

What some people don’t realize about writers is that it’s not just the quality of the writing that matters, it’s also the personality of the writer and their humanity that makes readers attached to them. So being bratty and immature to a kid is NOT a cute look. You keep doing you, what makes me love your account is your goofiness and overall joyful attitude. Just remember this- all writers at ALL stages are always developing their writing. Some people want to say they are the best but that’s not true. You keep persevering, and ignore the naysayers, because what will make you even more of a unique and amazing writing will be your perseverance 💕

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Noyonika Banerjee 💌's avatar

Thanks a lot for keeping such a sweet opinion about me🥹🥹

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☽✰ 𝐒𝐚𝐦’𝐬 𝐂𝐨𝐬𝐦𝐨𝐬 ✰☽'s avatar

❤️❤️

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Mark Meier's avatar

You're good. Use the negative as your motivation to do even better. Don't change who you are to please everyone. Politicians have been trying that forever now, and it still gets them nowhere. As you progress in your years, you'll gather more and more interesting ideas and topics to write about. Don't forget to live, too. There is so much out there; you got this. You are strong and brave and have lots to say.

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Noyonika Banerjee 💌's avatar

Thanks a lot!😊

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Sandeep Kumar Verma's avatar

You need to understand that the one who are criticising you are doing a great job! They are risking their reputation just for the sake of your betterment. I suggest you to join a memoir writing course by Natasha Badhwar https://ochreskystories.substack.com/cp/152240730 and try to write this same content with their help.

In my life everything accident turns out into ‘Happy accident’ because I learned the knack of learning from them. Critics are innocent people but their use of language is very harsh and it so because we are living life as if we are sleeping,and we need to be shaken to the root, to recognise where we are wrong and need improvement.

I am not advocating against your choice, it is your life and it is your choice, but just trying to express how I changed myself. A different perspective to look at the situation.

I was alone in my adolescent age so I used to write everything wrong done upon me, as it helps a lot! But I used to torn apart the ‘pages’ into many pieces or burn them. Writing such content on public platform needs better skills that Natasha train us for.

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Noyonika Banerjee 💌's avatar

Thanks a lot for that advice ☺️

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Ritwik Upadhyay's avatar

You’re my best friend that I’ve made on Substack. Don’t worry!! I will always be by your side. Advising you, consoling you and even making you feel confident in yourself when you’re not.

Loved reading this!! Yes!! Just don’t give a fuck about what people. Cause they say shit always!!!

Keep being yourself and keep writing. ☺️

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Noyonika Banerjee 💌's avatar

Thanks a lot, Ritwik!! The best advice from the best guy, always!!!☺️☺️...That is why I prefer you guys so much, not all people are good on here, but maximum aren't bad either. You guys have been by my side every step of the way, and I will always remember you guys for that!! ☺️

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Ritwik Upadhyay's avatar

♥️

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Tid_Talks's avatar

It’s sad and unfortunate that you had to go through u comfortable situations on a creative platform where uniqueness and freedom of expression needs to be celebrated. Having said that i wish luck to you, best for you and peace for everyone including haters. The world is hurting enough and i hope we find solace within and focus on our craft and do what makes happy.

Lots of love

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Noyonika Banerjee 💌's avatar

Thanks a lot, TID!! It really means a lot to me. I know I have you guys by my side, it makes me feel more secure😌💕💌✨️

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Janu's avatar

Humans have many faces, and not everyone will be nice to you. Some will, some won’t. It’s just how it is. Trying to put yourself out there or talk to people can feel risky because you’ll get mixed reactions. Even if your intentions are good, some people might still take it the wrong way or turn their back on you. It is what it is.

Just focus on yourself: write, respond to those who genuinely engage with your posts, and let everything else go. That’s what matters.

If anything, I’m here for you. I get that you’re a young girl learning and exploring life and I just want to be someone who gives you nice memories and help you in any way. ♡

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Noyonika Banerjee 💌's avatar

That is sooooo sweet of you, darling!🙂🥹...you really made my day! Thanks a lot! You are the best, Janu! Love you so much🥹🥹💞💞🫶🏻🫶🏻

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Noyonika Banerjee 💌's avatar

Thanks a lot for that sweet message🥹💌...I loved making logos for such sweet souls like you!☺️💕

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